I was in love with him for a year and since we moved in together, just EVERYTHING went wrong in the past 2 months and I don't think I love him anymore.Is it possible to fall OUT of love in 2 months?
Yes, it's possible. Of course it's possible. You're telling us it has happened to you. That doesn't mean you can't fall back in love ...but as you've provided no background detail there's no way I can provide any more relevant advice.
Yes. We never really know a person until we live with them. You are finding out who this man really is. You also may have thought you were in love with him but it was just lust or infatuation and now it's fading away.Is it possible to fall OUT of love in 2 months?
Sure, if he's let you down, hurt you and disappointed you in that span of time- it's totally possible to fall out of love.
If you want to try and work things out you need to remember why you loved him in the first place. Take time to reconnect and be together. Maybe counseling would help if you're both willing.
THIS is why i recommend moving in with somebody before marriage. Yes, its very possible, either work on the issues or pack your boxes.Is it possible to fall OUT of love in 2 months?
You made a fast move witthout giving a good thinking before...and here are the consequences. Always remember to listen to your head, not your heart. When you make decision that involves you directly, always cover north,south,east and west, you need to be cold about it, because it's going to affect you.
And to answer your question, this is happening because now all of a sudden you need to adjust to a 100% change in your before easy going routine.
You need to sit down and talk, I am sure he feels the same way, if he doesn't, then is important he knows HOW you feel.....and both need to create a system that is workable for both, in a relationship is a give an take from both sides...not only one, so, good luck.
If he feels also the same way you do, then live apart and try to get your relationship more mature.
I believe you can fall out of love in 2 seconds.
You didn't love his to start with, you where in love with love. Reality hits home when you move in with someone now it isn't about hearts and flowers, it is about dirty underwear, and dishes. Cleaning up after someone isn't fun, so that makes me believe you never where in love. So you didn't fall out of love you finally had a reality check.
The chances are that 1- you were never in love in the first place, 2- it may be that you saw a new area to explore (as you would a new toy) only to tire of the new marital guidelines, or 3- the ever-present "fear of commitment.
I lived with my late wife for 2 years before we married because I thought it was the wise thing to do. I was right but life isn't always consistent.
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